Jodoh itu unik

Seringkali yang dikejar-kejar menjauh.

Yang tak disengaja mendekat.
Yang seakan sudah pasti menjadi ragu.
Yang awalnya diragukan menjadi pasti.
Yang ternilai jadi biasa.
Yang tak dinilai jadi bernilai.
Yang selalu diimpikan, tak berujung pernikahan
Yang tak pernah terpikirkan, bersanding di pelaminan.

Maka, percayalah..
Jodoh itu bukan masalah seberapa lama kau mengenalnya.

Seberapa akrab kau dengan orang tuanya.
Atau seberapa sering kau komunikasi dengannya.
Tapi, seberapa yakin kau padaNya.

Seberapa besar kepasrahan kau dengan takdirNya.
Seberapa besar kau merayuNya.
Seberapa semangat kau menyempurnakan ikhtiar mendapatkannya.
Seberapa ikhlas saat kau gagal mendapatkannya, lalu digantikan dengan yang lebih baik menurut versiNya.

Semoga Sahabat yang sedang dalam penantian,
Semakin yakin dengan takdir Allah.

Semakin semangat menjemput belahan jiwanya.
Aamiin Ya Rabbal'alamiin.

Subhanallah
Semoga sahabat-sahabat dan ahli keluarga yang kusayang, termasuk diri ini mendapatkan jodoh yg baik agamanya dan mulia akhlaknya.

Aamiin :)

Righteous husband

“For the first time after 18 years of marriage, she prepared the worst dinner for her husband. The vegetables were over cooked, meat was burned and salad was too salty.
At the dinner table, her husband kept silent while he was eating.
After that, when she was in kitchen washing dishes.
He came to her, smile at her and kissed her on her forehead
“What is this kiss for?” she asked him not believing what he did.
“Tonight, your cooking reminded me of your cooking in the first days of our marriage. It reminded me of your cooking as a new bride, so I wanted to treat you as if you are a new bride.” 

This is the good righteous husband who turn the mistakes of his wife to positive sides in their life together, because the best Muslim man is the one who is best to his wife and should make her feel that she is so special to him.

Abu Hurairah narrated that Prophet Muhammad (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “The believers who show the most perfect faith are those who have the best disposition and the best of you are those who are best to their wives.” [Tirmidhi]

P/S : I will never stop praying to Allah for the best and righteous husband. I believe in Him :')

"Marriage isn’t the fairy tale which most assume it is. It is an exchange of responsibilities, unity which is formed on the mutual desire to please Allah (SWT). It is about being someone’s spouse, friend and companion, and eventually someone’s parent, mentor and role model. So prepare to take responsibility and turn to Allah (SWT), for every form of assistance comes from him."

Yang ingin dibimbing itu aku.

"Buat bakal imamku, akan ku persiapkan diriku sebelum kau menikahiku, agar tibanya saat ijab kabul itu, aku takkan memberatimu memikul dosa-dosaku, dosa auratku, dosa lidahku...

Aku mengharapkan solehmu, meskipun aku bukanlah solehah, akan ku cuba menjadi isteri solehah, penyejuk mata, pendamai hatimu agar kita sama2 mencapai mardhatillah...

Aku impikan tahajudku sebagai seorang makmum kepada seorang lelaki bernama suami. Yang ingin dibimbing itu aku."

One of my dreams.

Getting married with you was one of the things that I am planning to do. I want to build my dream house with you. We’ll get married and have kids. Then we’ll have a happy family. We’ll face trials and challenges on our marriage but we would fight for it. We won’t let temptations break us down. Allah will bind us together and no man can ever separate that bond. We’ll have huge couple fights but that won’t break us up. Instead, those challenges will make us stronger persons fighting for a happy and whole family. Then we’ll realize that in the end, we were meant to grow old together, after all.